You don’t have to be hot af to get a gorgeous woman. Being genuine and attractive in other ways attracts women in many different ways. Letting yourself down by not approaching that woman you “think” is out of your league may be your biggest challenge you don’t take. You may be missing out, find out what you can do.
They allow her to speak and see her for more than skin deep
We let the conversation flow naturally and allow the woman to speak about herself and her experiences. They allow her to open up a little easier and be themselves versus worrying about being little miss perfect.
They know that the woman is tired of hearing how beautiful she is on the outside, but what is it that makes them beautiful on the inside.
Intelligent men that don’t have the looks that knock out the other person use their personality to charm. They genuinely care about others and it shows with the flow of conversation.
They use their own personal life experiences to make humor and gain interest
Being real and able capitalize on their own life experiences and work them into conversations. Basically, they become a desirable person to speak with at an adult level.
They are confident and like who they are….
Most average men don’t rely on their looks to do their talking, they use their mind. They are confident in their own way and want someone that interests them, because they are beautiful doesn’t mean they can not have a good conversation. They are confident and not cocky.
They don’t boast about themselves or accomplishments…
Us average guys are genuinely humble and resist the boasting and lying that seems to rule the world nowadays. Yes physical attraction is important, but this adds to the persona of someone.
They find common ground in conversation
We look for things that they can use as common areas of interest. Whether it be common likes in movies, TV shows, local venues etc. It opens up a whole new line of conversation.
They are real and skip the cheesy pickup lines
No pickup lines. “Call the doctor, cause I just fell for you” Geez, give me a break. They start with something interesting and keep it interesting.
They know they are the underdog to the “stud” and become more interesting intellectuals.
Having a deeper conversation other than you have beautiful eyes and a great rack is usually enlightening to women.
They identify the woman’s personality type and make them comfortable
Smart guys look for signs and hints of personality traits. Many beautiful women are subjected to such malarkey that they are actually lonely. Men look at them as a sex symbol versus a person.
They don’t boast on the beauty of the woman
The non stud type converse about commonalities they may share. They don’t keep picking out different physical traits that turn them on physically. They are more patient and don’t drool over the beauty of the woman.
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